Circle
People whose taste matters.
A trusted little group
Who do you ask first?
Make a private Style Room for the people who understand a particular side of your style.
Or start with one of these:
Mutual connections
People, not followers.
A request is only an invitation. You become connected after the other person explicitly accepts, and either person can disconnect for both.
Your first mutual connection can start here.
Everyone going to the same thing?
Create one coordinated group event and share a single private link.
No address-book upload · no follower counts · no public membership list